In the opening documents, my sanity was questioned. We rebutted these allegations, but there are those in my family who would like to see me formally evaluated by someone in the mental health field to make my sanity official.
I will review this with my lawyer, and likely will get evaluated if he says so.
The legal process of dissolving a marriage is a slow one. Unfortunately, I have time to sit and think and reflect on my situation. This is not always good. I can harbor some pretty destructive thoughts. I temper these thoughts with the notion that the party opposing me in this divorce has already wrought enough destruction for the both of us. Why should I add to it?
Like I said, I have been a good and dedicated father over the lifetimes of my kids. My wife speaks Ukrainian as her first language. She tried to speak it with the kids, but was around so infrequently, that they can't even utter as sentence of it today. I taught them to speak. My dedication should be rewarded, not penalized.
2/3 of marital assets should go to me. maintenance payments should go to me. I should get 1/2 time with the kids, alternate weeks, once I go to the night shift working 7 days then getting 7 days off. There should be no child support payments to anyone.
My wife's conduct should be taken into account, sleeping with her boyfriend in the presence of the children before we even have a separation agreement in place, much less a finalized divorce decree. Using church property for personal financial gain is also unethical, yet something she had not problem doing, because she exaggerated her problems to our priest, duping him into allowing this use.
I have never, and never will, physically abuse any member of my family. I have never mentally abused any member of my family.
As I said in the previous post, cycling is a healthy safe pastime approved by much mainstream research. We could have easily worked out a compromise on this.
The bottom line is the rich wife had a rich boyfriend and wanted to break up with me to get to him free and clear. She used the cycling habit as a ruse to paint me as crazy to a trusting judge who I would assume is a friend to her lawyer. I sacrificed 1/3 of my life to her and the kids we had. I demand compensation.
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