"Blessed are you when (wo)men shall revile you and persecute you, and say all manner of evil against you falsely for My sake." - Beatitudes
Well, something actually went right this year. I got my tail light tickets dismissed in court! I appealed to the DA for leniency, and I got it, for a change.
Not so in family court... In addition to losing custody via the lies, intrigue, and loophole exploitations of my ex, I am, of course, getting sued for child support. My $90k will get siphoned off of, to augment her $300k salary, while she has the kids 12/14ths of each two week term... Fortunately, the two oldest are past age 21 and are no longer factored in the calculation. I also was saving money in anticipation of just such a trick.
I will also start a second job shortly to keep cash flow stable.
This sociopath I married needs to realize why our relationship is strained: If I had affairs while we were married, then petitioned the courts repeatedly with false allegations of her mental instability (she is anorexic btw) and abusive behavior towards the kids, how would HER demeanor toward ME be affected? I am sure she would be something less than cordial towards me! And, God help me, I haven't been exactly warm towards her through all this litigation...
The most blatant lie of abuse that made the complaint was me encouraging my son to punch me during an argument. This actually never happened in my house. One of my daughters, on the other hand, came to me complaining about the ex's second husband encouraging her to hit him during one of their arguments. We are all human. We have occasional lapses of judgement when parenting. No one here is mistake free. But don't LIE for crying out loud! I wouldn't go to court over an occasional faux pa.
It's mainly about money. Money certainly is the root of all human evil.
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